Body Image

The society we exist in often idolizes an “ideal” body image. The way we address bodies today can often cause many problems, including low self-esteem, unhealthy eating patterns, unhealthy exercise patterns, relationship concerns, and can also manifest in symptoms of social anxiety, depression, body dysmorphia, and self-consciousness.

Revitalize Wellness Counseling knows and believes your body deserves to take up space at every size and shape. Our body is the longest relationship we have, yet it is often the one that is most neglected. Revitalize Wellness Counseling follows the Health at Every Size—HAES® principles, which include weight inclusivity, health enhancement, eating for well-being, respectful care, and life-enhancing movement.

  • Body image refers to experience that encompasses one's body-related self-perceptions and self-attitudes, including thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and behaviors.

  • Bodily autonomy is about the right to make decisions over your life and future. You have the right to choose what to eat, how to care for yourself, whether to have sex, etc. It is the belief that no one has the right to violate the rights, autonomy or bodily integrity of anyone else.

  • Fatphobia is defined as a fear of fatness. It is a form of bigotry and discrimination that says that people of higher weight are inferior physically, intellectually, morally, and health-wise.

    This can often manifest as fat-shaming, weight stigma, or viewing individuals who exist in larger bodies as lazy, unmotivated, or disgusting. It also leads to poor health & medical care as medical systems still hold “thinness” as a framework for “health,” even though modern evidence shows that thinness does not equate to health. We also know that essential medical services are often denied to individuals in larger bodies because of fatphobia that infiltrates society and our medical systems.

    Revitalize Wellness Counseling understands how fatphobia can and does play a role in mental health.

  • Purity culture resulted from the purity movement that started in the late 1990s with the goal to protect young women using a biblical view of purity. Linda Kay Kline indicated, “The specifics vary by religion and culture, but gender- and sexual-control upon which purity culture stands is global, cross-religious, and cross-cultural.” While it is important to note that not all experiences in purity culture have been negative, it has been a common theme in religious trauma recovery.

    Purity culture often focuses on female bodies, dictating how they need to dress and appear, often including body weight. Purity culture places strict gender expectations. For example, men are expected to be strong, “masculine” leaders of the household, church, and society, and women are expected to support them—to be pretty,feminine,” sweet, supportive wives and mothers.

    Revitalize Wellness Counseling works with clients who are seeking to recover from negative impacts of purity culture, including (but not limited to) identifying how it may have played a role in body image perceptions.

Revitalize Wellness Counseling recognizes that individual sense of body image is multifaceted and impacted by societal expectations, deeply held beliefs, religious ideologies, and can include internalized fatphobia and/or racism (as “ideal” body image tends to idolize a thin and white skin body). Revitalize Wellness Counseling helps clients improve their own body image using a somatic approach and parts work, which looks at the connection between the mind and body to develop a healthier body image and tools to navigate societal ideologies & expectations. Revitalize Wellness Counseling is an advocate for body autonomy, body positivity & neutrality, and Health at Every Size—HAES®.

If you’re ready to work on healing, contact to request a free consultation.

I look forward to being a part of your journey to healing and confidence in your authentic self.